If the party starts at a certain hour at the swingers’ club near me, don’t be late and show up when everyone else does. It is not comfortable to arrive when everyone has already started drinking and enjoying their time. You will feel left out, because everyone has made their connections. When you arrive, you can discuss with the hosts, and get to know more about the club, about what to expect, how the action takes place, and such. In fact, you can request a tour, and once you discover the location and rooms better, you can talk with your partner about what you want to do.